How Parents Can Support Their Child Before a Music Recital

Recitals can bring up a mix of excitement and nerves—for students and parents. While teachers handle the musical preparation, parents play a huge role in helping their child feel confident and supported leading up to performance day. Here are simple, effective ways you can help your child have a positive recital experience.

1. Keep the Focus on Effort, Not Perfection

One of the most helpful things you can say is, “I’m proud of how hard you’ve worked.”Remind your child that recitals are about growth, not flawless performances. Mistakes are a normal part of learning—and every performer, even professionals, makes them.

2. Stick to a Consistent Practice Routine

In the days before the recital, consistency matters more than long practice sessions. Short, focused practice helps students feel prepared without becoming overwhelmed. Trust the teacher’s guidance and avoid last-minute pressure.

3. Help Them Practice Performing

Encourage your child to play their recital piece for family members, stuffed animals, or even an empty room. Practicing “performing” helps students feel more comfortable playing all the way through without stopping.

4. Talk Positively About the Recital

Children often mirror their parents’ emotions. Speaking positively about the recital helps set the tone. Avoid phrases like “Don’t mess up” or “This is a big deal,” and instead try, “This is a chance to share what you’ve learned.”

5. Prepare the Logistics Ahead of Time

Knowing what to expect reduces stress. Make sure you know:

• The recital time and location

• What your child should wear

• When to arrive

• Any specific instructions from the academy

Having these details handled allows your child to focus on their performance.

6. Acknowledge Nerves, D

on’t Dismiss Them

If your child feels nervous, let them know it’s normal. Many performers feel butterflies before going on stage. Reassure them that nerves mean they care—and that their teacher and audience are rooting for them.

7. Celebrate No Matter What

After the recital, celebrate the courage it took to perform. Applaud the bravery, preparation, and effort—not just the outcome. This reinforces confidence and helps students look forward to future performances.

Final Thoughts

Your encouragement and attitude can make all the difference in how your child experiences their recital. With positive support, recitals become a meaningful milestone—one that builds confidence, resilience, and pride that lasts long after the final note.

We’re so proud of every student who steps on stage and can’t wait to celebrate their progress.